What does the season of Lent mean to you? Some of us think about abstinence and fasting on certain days, some think about the Way of the Cross which is usually held on Fridays during Lent, some even think about making a confession at one of the churches having penitential service. All these appear to be good practices, but these are merely external practices of piety. If we get caught up with only such external practices, we may end up losing the whole point of Lent, and that is to lead us to reconciliation with God and with each other, and eventually lead us to an inner conversion.
The question is, are these practices already mentioned enough? Or is there more to these practices than meets the eye? Perhaps we need to
relook at three practices which we often hear about especially during
Lent, but we may not have fully comprehended or understood what they
mean. The three practices are prayer, fasting and giving alms.
we speak of prayer, we are talking about establishing a closer
relationship with God. Sometimes we may have become so used to rattling
out prayers such as the rosary, the divine mercy, prayer to the Sacred
Heart, or some other form of devotion, that our prayer is prayed out of
habit or out of a tradition that was passed down to us from our elders.
But by praying such prayers, are we really growing closer to God? Prayer
should change us and lead us to trust more in God and to place our
lives in His control. Are our prayers enabling us to do so? Or have our
prayers become a form of babbling, saying so many things but without
When we speak of fasting, we are fasting not because we want to
torture or punish our bodies, and fasting is not meant to be used as an
excuse or a means to lose weight. We fast because we want to thirst for
God, and place God first in our lives. Fasting helps us reconsider our
values in life, and guides us to reject and deny the lures of
temptations, especially to satisfy our own wants. Fasting sets us free
from greed, and makes us more sensitive to the needs of others.
give alms, we do so not because we pity the poor or those who are less
fortunate. We give alms because it reminds us of the need to be in
solidarity with all, especially with the poor. Giving alms reminds us
that all things come from God, nothing really belongs to us, and thus we
should not cling on to these things selfishly. Giving alms remind us
that people are far more valuable and important than things.
Let us take courage and let the Lord help us
deepen our prayer life, and help us to be humble and docile in our
fasting and also in our generosity to share with the poor. Let us do
these things not because they are merely external practices, or to show
off, but because we want to grow closer to God, walk in His ways, and
let Him be our providence and guide. Let us not only confine such practices during the season of Lent, but throughout the year, so that others may truly see and give thanks to God, on what it really means to be brothers and sisters in Christ.
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